He's born with it and He knows he OWNS you. He gets away with whatever He feels like doing cuz He knows the bitches jump whenever He snaps his fingers. He doesn't have to beat His chest, shave His chest or have an expensive ride, like all the other douchebag tools out there trying to pick up girls - no he doesn't give a shit about your approval. I hate to think he would be so deceptive, but his behavior when it comes to sex is much different than the trusty friend with whom I have exchanged memories, dreams and confidences.A real Man doesn't have to go to an effort to wield His power over His bitches. I also am wondering if he is telling the truth about her feelings or just making it up so I’ll have sex with him. But that seems like a very personal question to ask. How does a couple protect the privacy of their relationship when one of them is also involved with someone else and they all know each other? What if she thinks she’d be OK with it but then she isn’t and it destroys their marriage? Or what if once my heart is engaged, he calls it off because it’s endangering their marriage and I am the one who gets hurt? And is it any of my business to know if she also has another partner? If the only other person he is sleeping with is his wife and she’s not sleeping with anyone else, I would feel safe not using condoms (I’m post-menopause and have been abstinent for several years), but not if she’s also having sex outside their marriage. Although the reason I don’t get involved with married men is that I don’t want to be part of lies and deception, I am not sure how I feel about it if the wife is OK with it. Then one day he called to say that he had suggested to his wife that they open up their marriage, and that she did not object. We didn’t see each other after that for two months, although we emailed about business and social things. I also told him he could no longer stay at my house. I told him to get out, and the next morning told him we could remain friends as long as he stopped pestering me for sex. The last night he actually came into my room and into my bed and started kissing and fondling me, trying to coax me to have sex. This was a side of him I had never seen, and I found it unsettling.
He questioned my relationship with my ex because we vacation together and insisted we must be having sex even though he knows my ex is gay, which is why we got divorced. I admitted that if he were not married, I would definitely be interested, but he is married, so I’m not! He started questioning me about all of my male friends (some married, some single) and if I was having sex with any of them (I’m not) or if I ever had (except for my ex, I hadn’t), and then said he didn’t believe me, as he claimed he’s seen them all look at me with love and longing.
During the days he was visiting, we had a wonderful time, but each of the nights, we argued about having sex.
I agreed he could stay over and the next day come to the birthday party my family was holding for me. He wanted to take me to dinner at my favorite restaurant and was miffed that I already had plans to go there with another friend. The next month, he showed up at my house unannounced and uninvited to surprise me for my birthday.